February 24, 2016

How is he already 6 months old

This is a hard one for me! How is our precious second baby already half way through his first year of life. It really can't have been that long ago that we were in South Africa awaiting his arrival. Oh, but what a blessed past 6 months it has been. We have enjoyed our little "Gray-see" so much and he is so important to our family.

Height: 27. 5 in
Weight: 20 lbs 4 oz
Feeding: mainly still EBF, although we have tried to start introducing other foods, not much luck there yet!
Clothing: 6-9 month
Diaper: 3 disposable

Eating: This past month we purchased a high chair and decided to start trying to introduce some other foods into Gryason's diet. He was showing all the signs that he was ready, sitting up pretty well. Reaching out and grabbing our food, etc. Well this little boy is pretty much anti-anything other than breast milk. He gags at almost everything pureed or little finger foods. He also is the master at keeping his lips sealed and should you dare trick him and make it past his lips he will lovingly shower you in the food you are trying to feed him. So at this point we are just passively trying solids. When he is ready he will let us know.

Sleeping: Yea...lets me real, this mommy is super tired! G-is doing great at taking consistent naps during the day. Pretty much on a set napping schedule. 2- 1.5 hr naps a day. I can handle that, actually its pretty awesome. But then night time comes and apparently sleeping has gone out the window. We really haven't got back into a decent pattern since our trip to Europe last month. I think the travels compounded with 4 teeth in the last 2 months and a 6 month sleep regression have brewed together to be a prefect storm of rough nights. But we are pushing through and I am positive that we will get our decent sleeper back!

Milestones: Well, he has gotten 2 more teeth this month. Both of his front teeth have come in over the last 2 weeks. He is constantly on the move, still army crawling like a champ. He is starting to try to move up onto his hands and knees when he crawls. He is really interested in pulling up on everything and he usually gets his chest fully off the ground. He is doing alright at sitting unassisted. He normally can do about 5-10 seconds before getting wobbly.


G- Loves Daliya! And she loves wearing him
around the house.



He always is chewing on something!

Playing with his big brother

"I'm not going to eat it but I will look cute!"


February 4, 2016

Grayson is five months

How is this possible, our baby is 5 months old already!

Height: N/A
Weight: N/A
Feeding: still nurses about every 3.5 hrs and still wakes in twice a night to nurse 
Clothing: 6 and 6-9 months
Diaper size: 3 disposable

Eating: We are still rocking the every 3.5 hours on the feeding. He still is just exclusively breast feeding and we will probably start on some cereal, fruits and vegetables around 6 months.

Sleeping: This past month has been chaotic with sleeping. We traveled out of country and lived in a hotel room for 17 days. Most nights he was up every 2-3 hours. But, I am hopeful now that we are back home and in our normal routine he will get back to waking only 2 times a night.

Milestones: He cut his first tooth this month. I noticed it erupting through his gum while we were hanging out in London Heathrow airport awaiting our flight to South Africa. He is getting more and more mobile and I would say he has the army crawl down pat now!
This past month he celebrated his first Christmas. He spend his first New Years traveling internationally. He got to spend time on another continent, Europe. He experienced his first cold weather and snow in Prague. He got to experience public transportation for the first time: bus, boat and metro. He also laughs and smiles almost every time he sees H. He loves his older brother and they are starting to interact with each other.


Just hanging out in my new Sock Monkey hat
on Christmas morning


It's my first Christmas, and I'm loving it!

All bundled up on the Metro in Prague,
ready to explore the city.

"Momma, save me!"



Grayson is four months old

Weight: N/A
Height: N/A
Clothing: 6 month
Feeding: Nurses about every 3.5hrs. He wakes up twice a night to nurse.
Diaper size: 3 disposable

Eating: Grayson is starting to space his feedings to more regularly 3.5 hours apart. I think a large portion of this change is due to the fact the Grandma and Grandpa Veres have been here this month and he has spent more time away from mommy. I love nursing my little guy but it has been nice to get a few more breaks in the day :)

Sleeping. He still goes to bed by 7:30, the same time has his big brother. I can't say enough how great it is to have them on the same bedtime routine. It makes things just a little easier and gives Joseph and I some time to just chill without the kiddos for a few hours before we head to bed.

Milestones: This month he has mastered rolling from belly to back. He has also started pushing himself around on the floor some!
This past month was a great one for him. He got to meet his Grandma and Grandpa Veres for the first time. He went on his second trip to Zambia and went on his second safari! He has started taking some naps in his crib and not in his bouncy seat. It's a work in progress. We are loving watching this little guy grow and grow. We love you!

"I'm cute!"



H being a great big brother and playing with
little G


He loves his good friend Daliya

With his Grandpa Veres

With Grandma Veres

"I LOVE my Grandpa and Grandma Veres!"


South Luangwa

We knew that we wanted to take Joe and April on a safari game drive during their visit, so we had decided with them prior to their arrival that we would head to South Luangwa National Park in Zambia and do some game drives. This is the same place that we went to while my mom and sister visited back in September.

However, this time we decided to do things a little differently. Last time we stayed at a lovely private home located on the protected game reserve and we self drove in the park. This time we stayed at a lodge located in the protected game reserve and went on guided tours. Also this time was in December and during rainy season. This meant two things: 1) it was a lot greener than just a few months earlier; 2) it was a lot hotter than back in September (the heat will come into play later in this tale!).

The lodge was nice and both of our families had private chalets that were pretty nice for standards this side of the world. The meals were catered and not too bad (unless you don't eat fish...ask Joe about it!). There was a nice pool that served as a great place to cool down and the property was located right on the bank of the Luangwa river, so the hippos came right up on the property at night! We saw them up close and heard them munching on the grass one evening too.

Our first full day there we spent a total of 8 hours out on game drives. We had a blast and saw tons of animals. Joseph even spotted a male lion about 45 mins into the drive. One of the neatest things about the whole experience is that we were in a open air vehicle and got super close to all the wildlife, so we were able to hear and experience it all up close and personal. Now I will admit, Joseph and I never completely thought we were crazy taking our 23 month old and 3 month old out on the drives, but when we were just a few yards away from a grown male lion and a pack of elephants...I may have been doing some praying for their little mouths to stay quiet! And praise the Lord, they did!

We did two 4 hour game drives--one in the morning and one evening/night drive. The night drive was something we were unable to do back in September because you're not allowed to be in the park past 6pm as a self drive vehicle but you can be in the park past dark on the guided game drives. On the night drive we were able to park next to the river and get out enjoy the sunset over the Luangwa River while watching 100's of hippos go about their everyday lives right below us. We were also able to see a leopard, which can be very elusive and difficult to spot. I was so excited to see one because we were unable to sport one back in September. 

At the end of the first day we were all exhausted. We were so impressed with how Hudson sat on his bottom without any restraint for a total of 8 hours that day. He literally said "hi and bye" to every animal we came in contact with. 

When we got back to the lodge they had dinner ready for us, so we ate and then quickly got the boys to bed. Then grandma graciously sat in our room listening out for the kiddos so Joseph and I could go for a swim and cool off. Little did I know that the hottest and most miserable night of my life thus far was just around the corner.

Now we are very accustomed to power outages here in Africa. It's called load shedding, where power to certain parts of the city or country are turned off for a period of time to help spread the limited amount of electricity around. Well this is the case in Zambia just as well as Malawi. I don't mind it as much during the day because I can be fairly certain I will at least have a fan at night, and that day was no exception. The power had been off in the morning and early afternoon so I was not worried about it being off that night. The power went of at 10:00pm, just moments after we turned of the lights. When that glorious fan went off, I wanted to cry. It was so hot, and Joseph, the baby and I were all sharing a double bed, so our body heat also made it stifling, especially under the mosquito net where there is no breeze. I remember praying that the power would come back on quickly, but the minutes turned into hours and there was still no power. I couldn't sleep because I was worrying about my babies over heating. Grayson just wanted to nurse all night because he was hot and sweating. I was sweating and felt like I did not have one more drop of breast milk to give him. Plus with no power, I could hear EVERYTHING! The hippos munching the grass outside my window, the night guards walking the property, Joseph's intermittent snores, Hudson's tossing and turning. It was so defeating laying there just waiting for the morning to come.

Well, it did come as sure as the sun rises, and we got up and went to our early breakfast so we could go on our game drive for that morning. We left and there was no electricity, but I wasn't worried at that point. It had been off for over 8 hours, so I was confident it would be on when we returned.

So we had another lovely drive, the boys did so well again. We were able to see some hyenas up close and have our morning tea under a big baobab tree. It was great! We also were super close to a giraffe and Hudson loved it, as well as all of the adults!

When we got back to the lodge the power was still out. At this point it had been out for over 12 hours. It probably is starting to sound like I'm a big baby and I can't "rough it ". Well let me tell you when you sleep under a net with no breeze in 100 plus degrees with so much humidity it is suffocating, I will let you decide if I'm a big baby or not! When we returned the owner of the lodge found us and told us that the country of Zambia was experiencing a nationwide blackout. All they knew at that point was that Lusaka, the capital, had power restored. But there was no indication as to when our part of Zambia would have it restored.

Well, when we went back to our chalet, I nearly lost it. I can take a lot but the thought of going through another sleepless night worrying about my babies overheating, I just wasn't sure I could do it. So after lunch Joseph and I talked with his parents and came to the decision that we would leave the lodge a day early and head back for Malawi. This meant missing out on our last game drive, but we all decided that although it would be disappointing to not do the drive, we just couldn't bear the thought of one more night of restless sleep for everyone. So we settled up our bill and hit the road. Of course right as we were leaving the power came back on...AWA (Africa wins again, as we say!) but we all decided we made the right decision as there was no guarantee that it would stay on.

Overall, it was a great trip. The animals and once in a lifetime experiences totally made up for the ridiculous heat and no sleep. 


Watching the elephants cross the river.







Beautiful sunset on the Luangwa River



Hudson and a termite hill

Hyena

Kudu

Leopard



Three year old male lion

Monkey hanging by the pool at our lodge

Family picture by the giant termite hill

The remnants of an African Buffalo




December visit with Joseph's parents

We were lucky enough for Joseph's parents to join us here in Malawi for almost the entire month of December. Their visit was great for so many reasons: spending time with family, helping with the boys, and encouraging our souls when it is needed so badly.

When Joe and April arrived Joseph and I were weary. So many responsibilities had been added to our plates due to the VRI. Joseph was busy trying to finish his teaching responsibilities here in Malawi as well as finish his own seminary requirements so he can graduate this upcoming May. I was busy trying to manage our home and our two boys amidst frequent and long power outages. It is hard to get things done when you never know when the power will come or go. So needless to say, the Lord was so gracious to us and blessed us with our family at just the right time.

The boys had an absolute blast with Grandpa and Grandma, aka "Granka" according to Hudson. Hudson almost daily woke Grandpa up with a pillow fight and peek a boo. Grandma spoiled Hudson rotten with awesome crafts and games she had made. Grayson of course loved the never ending snuggles and attention too! Hudson still loves to come up to us and say "Fight!", wanting us to do a pillow fight with him...thanks grandma! 

Joseph and I so greatly appreciated their listening ears and having some adults to spend time with! We loved the almost nightly game nights (except beanboozeled, that game was create by the devil!).
It was nice to be able to share some time at Lake Malawi as well as our safari drives in Zambia with them.

We also took them up to the seminary so they could see where Joseph works and listen to him teach. We took them down to the fabric market so they could find material for making place mats and napkins. We went to Dedza so they could look for some pottery souvenirs, and they were even lucky enough to find a whole matching plate set and cups that were already made and ready to be purchased that day. Then of course, because they were here for a whole month, they also saw our mundane everyday life; grocery shopping, cloth diapering, cooking for scratch, etc. 

I personally enjoyed being able to host and cook for them. They only had to experience a couple of flops and were very gracious with last minute change-ups due to power outages. It was also great for them to see what some of our everyday life looks like. It is hard to explain things, like frequent power outages, house help, and living behind four walls and the isolation that it brings. 

We are just so thankful and grateful for the time they spent with us and the boys and for the memories made. We know that it isn't easy for our families having us live so far away, but we are so thankful for how supportive everyone has been and making the most out of every minute we get to spend together.


Just going for a stroll

Chapel at the seminary

Just a little painting with Grandma

Decorating the Christmas tree Grandma made him



Safari Selfie!





Fun in Dedza with their grandparents


Enjoying Christmas morning with Grandma and Grandpa


Beautiful day at Lake Malawi